They say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else, whilst I am not the biggest advocate of this statement I get the principles behind it...there is nothing wrong with a bit of attention, an ego stroke and someone to exchange flirty emails and texts with.
Before I begin, let it be noted that not all of this has happened since the new year but seeing as it is a new year I thought I might as well talk about one of my resolutions - always say "yes"
1) Mr Best Friend ( male) - The first in my mission to say yes. We've been best friends for years, we've had our ups and downs, gone months without seeing each other but shamelessly flirting has always been a part of it. Thankfully we are still best friends, it stopped at the kissing stage, and it wasnt awkward at all. In fact it was lovely. But just friends, just as it should be and never ever EVER to happen again.
2) Mr Perfect (ish) - in so many ways. If he had a dating CV he would tick all the boxes - cute, charming, sincere, generous, emotional, sensible and understanding. But I just didnt fancy him. I tried the "lets just be friends" trick - dont think it went down too well.
3) Mr Darcy meets Daniel Cleaver -Physically attractive, massively fun, great banter and probably the most intelligent guy I have ever met. Luckily for both of us we are emotionally uninvolved and he is totally unsuitable. Fine for now.
4) Mr New Years Eve - well, I cant remember much but you cant have New Years Eve without a New Years kiss, can you? A friend of a friend, met him half a dozen times before and there is absolutely nothing " there" - but then again with the lubricant of alcohol you can certainly think there is, plus he is goddam gorgeous and quite amusing..so no complaints there...
And there we have it folks...all encounters have been above board, but certainly New Years resolution in action.
Dont say no, say yes, at least to giving things a go.
Bring on 2010!
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