Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

And there we have it folks. Breaking up is hard to do - not that the decision was really in my hands but there we go. Love number 3, done and dusted. The funny thing is ( not that this is a laughing matter) is that I understand why - in fact if I was he, I wouldnt have even lasted this long. Baggage, insecurities, self confidence issues are not, and I repeat NOT, the best way to sell youreslf in a relationship and at the end of the day if you cant handle them then nobody else can either. Everybody has issues, Im not a special case, but its the way you handle your issues which is the deal breaker. In all honesty, it got to the point that I just wanted him to fix them to make them all go away which inadvertedly meant fixing me. But the only person who can fix you is yourself. Someone once told me that a relationship should only add to you, it shouldnt become you but as I became more complacent I forgot this and I was looking for somone to be my 0.5 to me 0.5, when really they should have been my 0.5 to my 1.0. And heres not forgetting that complacency breeds contempt. All easily said and done in hindisight, and if i could turn that clock back just 48 hours I probably wouldn't be here, but the reality is that I am. For myself - I need to sort my own stuff out instead of expecting others to. For the rest of you - take a look at what you have. You dont know what you've lost til its gone.